April 2 marks World Autism Day.
For Nicole Duggan, it’s another opportunity to celebrate her six-year-old son who despite his young age, has taught her true bravery.
Speaking to Her today, Nicole says that autism is a word that changed her life forever.
It’s a loaded term for the Cork-based parent who says that autism is also a word that can make her cry without warning, a word that makes some people view her little boy as different and a word that has made her stronger than ever before.
Riley was diagnosed with autism when he was two years and nine months old and initially, Nicole says it turned her family’s lives upside down.
He is non-verbal, has a number of sensory issues and as Nicole explains it, Riley finds “this big crazy word difficult to cope with”.
The news caused many tears to begin with but then there was a change because autism showed Nicole just how amazing her little boy is.
Nicole talking about her son is pure joy and you can feel the outpouring of love.
Riley is the happiest, funniest, cheekiest little boy. He loves traffic lights and exit signs. He loves to read books, and to draw pictures. He loves sweets and chocolate. He dances to music, and he cries when he falls. He is just like any other little boy. And we would all be lucky to be part of his world”.
A proud mum, she is also keen to share how much Riley has taught her and how he can teach others too.
“Riley has taught me true bravery, how to be strong when you feel like you cant, and how to face battles with your head held high”.
Nicole also discusses the importance of educating people about autism.
“What we need to do is teach people. Help them to understand that autism is not a bad thing, autism is an amazing thing fascinates me beyond belief. Autism is now our life. A life filled with therapy appointments, sensory toys, regulation, and a whole lot of love, and that is fine with me”.
In an Instagram post marking World Autism Day, Nicole sends a message to other parents of children with autism, who may be at different stages of this unique experience.
“Whether your child is being put forward for assessment, you are waiting for a diagnosis or have been on this journey for a very long time, celebrate today. Because it is one hell of a rollercoaster.
“This year, as always we will make sure people understand our kids, for the amazing people they are”.
