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14th August 2024
11:58am BST
It's clear that the popularity of religious ceremonies is waning, with more couples opting for humanist weddings these days.
A growing number of people also want to see traditional elements reimagined or discarded altogether.
We spoke to Dubliners about the changes they’d like to see, and their responses covered a wide range of topics.
One person suggested eliminating the financial strain of a lavish wedding: “It’s not right for people to spend their entire savings on their wedding.”
Others proposed moving away from superficial aspects, such as the expectation for brides to wear white, lose weight, or invite acquaintances. One person said: “Why stick to white dresses? Floral or patterned dresses could be just as beautiful.”
Another voiced concerns about body image pressures: “Expecting someone to lose weight for their wedding is just toxic.”
When it comes to guest lists, many are now envisioning their weddings as smaller and more intimate events.
One person noted: “The formality should be reduced. It should be about celebrating with friends without the pressure of following strict traditions.”
Another agreed, saying: “Weddings don’t need to be grand and filled with hundreds of guests. A smaller, more personal event can be just as special.”
In the past, couples often had to adhere to theexpectations of their parents because thye may have contributed financially.
Now, people are advocating for more autonomy: “We should be free from parental influence and make choices that truly reflect what we want.”
Several also mentioned eliminating traditions like the father giving away the bride, the garter toss, and religious elements.
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