There’s an unspoken rule that when it comes to sex (and if you’re a woman) you should try the cowgirl position. Why? Well, not only does it put you firmly in control of events, it can also boost your chances of experiencing an orgasm. However, if you’ve ever spent any time in the cowgirl position you’ll know that while being in charge is fun, it’s also bloody exhausting. All that bouncing and bopping – chances are you’ll start feeling the burn sooner than you feel anything else (if you know what we mean). So how can you upgrade the cowgirl position to ensure that you still get your happy ending without all the hard work? You could start hitting the gym and doing lunges and squats in an attempt to build up your muscle stamina or you could sit back, relax, read the following three tips and live to ride another day... __________ If you're getting tired, try putting your hands on his chest Get touchy-feely: When you start to feel yourself slowing down or getting tired in the cowgirl position, simply put your hands on his chest. By placing your hands here, a little of your weight will be taken off your legs. You’ll be able to move better and he’ll love the nice view he gets of your own chest in this position. Slow things down: Cowgirl is a position that is definitely associated with stamina and you need to pace yourself if you want to reach O-Town when you’re riding high. Don’t be afraid to slow down if you need to. Remember – you’re the one in charge, so take it at a speed that’s comfortable for you. Your legs will thank you in the long run. Take tiny ‘fun’ breaks: If the movement is getting a little too much for you, take a break. Stop what you’re doing, lean forward and spend five minutes showering your other half with kisses. Stopping mid-sexy time in order to have a makeout session with your man can add an extra element of passion and excitement. Not only will you get a little rest, you’ll also increase the heat. It’s a win/win situation.