Dita Von Teese once claimed that she could seduce a man simply by sending her energy across the room. Seriously Dita? Fair play to you if that’s actually true but sadly most of us have to do a lot more work when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex.
So how exactly do you seduce a man? Here at Her.ie towers we firmly believe that the best thing you can do is to be yourself however according to an award-winning matchmaker, there are a few other things that we can do to improve our chances.
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A genuine, natural smile is one of your best secret weapons
Study your smile: A natural, genuine smile is attractive and if you display the fact that you’re a happy, healthy woman you’ll naturally attract happy and good-natured men to you. Study your smile in the mirror. When you crack a grin do you look happy, fun and open-hearted?
According to the matchmaker, we should practice our smiles. Make it a point to smile as often as possibleuntil you really feel it. A genuine smile is a smile that lights up your entire face.
Up your confidence levels: A confident woman is one who isn’t needy or clingy, who knows her own power, knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to ask for it. According to the matchmaker, men tend to pick up on subtle vibes if we’re fearful, critical or generally closed-off.
If you’re confident you’ll appear bright, full of life and completely sure of yourself. Boost your confidence and watch the type of man you attract completely change. Instead of the losers, you’ll get men who admire strong women and who treat them with respect.
Be mysterious: When it comes to dating, this is something that we tend to hear a lot. So what does it mean? The matchmaker advises that after a first date, don’t rush to your phone and immediately text him. Sit tight and and give him the chance to chase you. At the end of the day, most men enjoy having to work a bit so give him the opportunity to do so.
It’s also best not to reveal too much about yourself on the first date. Keep an air of mystery. Now this doesn’t mean that you should say “none of your business!” if he asks you what you do for a living, just try not to overshare. If it’s your first date, he probably doesn’t want to hear about that time you got fired or broke your leg.
When dating, it’s important to just relax, have fun and enjoy yourself
Just have fun: According to the matchmaker, men are big kids at heart and they love having fun. If you want to be completely irresistable to the opposite sex just relax and have fun with them. Radiate happiness and warmth, be playful and smile. Visualise yourself literally glowing with joy.
Make it a point to enjoy the experience no matter what happens, simply live in the moment, have the craic and if it leads to another date great but don’t stress about it.
