Are you finding it difficult to reach that point, to even feel a little of what it feels to be there?
Or are you one of the lucky ones who can comfortably experience an orgasm, but you just want your big moment to be even bigger?
The sex experts are here to help you enjoy your best orgasm yet…
Sit back and take note, there’ll be no stopping you after these top tips!
Hit The Right Spots
A friction position might help you have an orgasm during intercourse. Get on top so the top of your clitoris is rubbing directly on your partner’s pubic bone, or lay on your back with a pillow under your behind…
For the adventurous, you might even want to try using a vibrator during intercourse for some real orgasmic fireworks…
Talk The Talk
Men want, and a lot of the time need, direction. Let your partner know when he’s on the right track, he’ll love the praise and realise that this is what he should probably be doing more of!
Oh!! But at least now he knows what to do…!
Exercise Your Orgasm
Have you ever heard of kegels? They are the classic exercise for women who want to transform ‘oh’ orgasms into ‘OHHH’ orgasms. We have the full guide on kegels here, but for a quick lesson, you can locate these muscles in your pelvic floor by stopping yourself peeing midstream. Tone them by clenching when you’re no peeing. You can do these a few times a day and nobody will notice.
The Risk Factor
Studies show that experiencing some thrill-seeking behaviour together stimulates the feel-good hormone, dopamine, in the brain. Thrill-seeking can be anything from a scary movie to a cliff-dive! You’ll be guaranteed to get your juices flowing…
One Word: Delay
We know it’s no always possible, but the longer the arousal build-up, the bigger the explosion at the end. Get yourself close to an orgasm and then slow to a simmer. Repeat a few times before you climax.
Slow it down and breathe…. it could the tip to help you reach your best orgasm yet…
And Breathe…
Tantric sex is based on focused breathing, which boosts your sexual pleasure massively. Partners who breathe in tandem may slow the rush to orgasm and create a bigger build-up… you won’t be disappointed. There’s more types of sex than you could ever believe… check them out here.
Be Creative
Foreplay is such a large part of sex and it takes women longer to warm up to the big event. Get a head-start with some of these foreplay tricks.
Relax
Stress from work and your daily life can hinder your libido seriously. This lowers your chance of orgasm. Ditch life’s distraction at the bedroom door and focus on you and your partner to enjoy the experience in full.
