Lad looks for advice on his girlfriend’s ‘disgusting fetish’

Oh.

If there is one thing that should not be tolerated on the World Wide Web, it's fetish shaming. When it comes to all things sex, riding, and relationships, each to their own and everything. As long as both parties (or however many parties there may be) consent to the acts in question, we can all go ahead and assume that everything is okay and acceptable. ... No matter how strange and unnatural we may perceive it to be. However. One guy has taken to Reddit to ask for some advice on how to "deal" with a fetish that his new girlfriend has. He has said that this woman is "everything I could ask for" and that he sees her as his "ideal partner" but he doesn't know if he's able to cope with her strange sexual (and sometimes non-sexual) desires. And just as a disclaimer, the phrase "disgusting fetish" are his words and not ours. He said:

"On Christmas Eve, I woke up pleasantly surprised to see that she was cooking breakfast. But, when I looked at my scrambled eggs, it looked really really sketchy. "It looked way too moist. My gf told me she used a fancy cheese which is why it was extra moist and smelly. I believed her and ate it."

Alright, nothing too strange here. The Reddit user, however, went on.

"Then on New Year's Eve, we were cuddling and doing couple things. She brought strawberries and whipped cream. We did some fun with the whipped cream and she fed me the strawberries. "Then she chewed up a berry and fed it to me. I thought it was weird, but I was so horny I didn't mind. We finished the rest of the berries in the same manner, and the subsequent sex was AMAZING. "But... now she's starting to chew her food and feed it to me. Sometimes not in a sexual manner. Steak, chicken, salad, eggs, etc. It's so disgusting."

Oh. We see. The guy went on to say that when he protests, his girlfriend cries and asks why he doesn't love her enough. He also said that all of their fights tend to revolve around this issue, but other than that she is "perfect." Now, according to the subsequent conversations in this Reddit thread, this fetish does actually exist within certain communities. It's called "baby-birding" (for obvious reasons), but users don't seem too convinced that this is what this lad's girlfriend is actually doing. Rather, many people seem to be suggesting that she is making him eat her chewed up food to assert power over him and that her emotional reactions when he refuses are to do with her own insecurities. Others have also suggested that the woman is emotionally abusing her boyfriend and that he should probably leave her. The guy finished his correspondence in the thread saying that he was going to meet up with one of his girlfriend's exes and see whether he experienced the same issue as him. It has not yet been revealed what he discovered.