Did you know that a whopping 93 per cent of how we communicate with others is non-verbal? This means that while our mouths are chatting it up, the rest of us is also giving the person we’re chatting to subtle cues and hints about what we’re really saying.
“So what?!” we hear you yell. Well did you know that you can use the power of body language to find out what the object of your affections will be like between the sheets? Yes, it’s true.
Body language can not only tell you if your crush is into your flirtatious advances, it can also tell you if he’s shy in the boudoir or if he likes to take control. Studying his body language (eh, in a non-creepy way) could tell you a multitude of things.
Here are three simple ways that you can use his non-verbal communication to your advantage…
Can his hands tell you if he’ll be amazing in bed? Eh, yes, apparently…
Have a gawk at his writing style: Look at a sample of your crush’s handwriting. According to experts who specialise in handwriting analysis, men who sign a lower-case ‘y’ with a flourish or a loop, or men who put a squiggle in the tail of the ‘y’ have higher libidos and are far more likely to engage in role playing and other imaginative forms of sexy time in the bedroom. So the next time you meet a prospective suitor, ask him to write his name, his email address and his phone number down on a piece of paper for you – God only knows what the rest of his handwriting will tell you about him!
If he fidgets a lot: Have you noticed that your man is always fidgeting? While biting his nails or running his hands through his hair is usually a sign of nervousness, it also means that he likes to put boundaries behind the closed doors of the bedroom. According to relationship experts, this kind of energy and personality traits translates well when it comes to passion and experimentation in the bedroom.
Does he use hand gestures? Pay attention to the type of gestures that your man makes as he talks to you. If he uses broad, sweeping and dramatic movements as he’s telling you a story, it means that he’s explosive underneath the covers. Lots of hand movements mean that the object of your affections is creative, imaginative and likes to make sex feel like a dramatic event. Oh and pay close attention to his thumb. According to research, the thicker, longer or stronger his thumb is, the better he’ll be at giving you orgasms. Hey, don’t look at us, it’s science apparently.
