We don’t know about you but when it comes to sex, we sort of get an ego boost when we leave him with his mind absolutely blown from the experience.
If you’re planning on staying in tonight why not heat things up and give your man an experience between the sheets that he’s not likely to forget any time soon? It’s as easy as one, two and three…
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Sex is all about anticipation so heat things up as early as possible
Step one: get frisky, asap!
For men a lot of their arousal depends on the anticipation of sex rather than the act of sex itself. With that in mind, get your game on as early as possible this evening. Put on your raunchiest lingerie and give him a little sneak peak.
If you’re heading out tonight, flirt with him, whisper a few dirty things to him – tell him all the things you want to do to him when you get home. Or, if you’re staying in, get a little naughty, challenge him to a game of something (cards/Xbox/Monopoly, your choice) that will get his testosterone levels increasing.
By dropping all these hints that sex will be happening later, you’ll give him a slow mental build up that will get his heart racing and his libido rising.
Try giving your man a slow, sexy, striptease
Step two: prolong the experience
By the time you make it to the bedroom, chances are he’s going to immediately take control and try and get the job done as quickly as possible. Instead, take the lead and try to extend the foreplay for as long as possible. Again, this will build sexual tension between the two of you and drive him wild with anticipation.
Try channelling your inner Dita von Teese and treating him to a slow and sexy striptease or, failing that, indulge in a little dirty talk (if you’re feeling raunchy try doing both at the same time). Do whatever you can think of to make the experience last that little bit longer.
If things are getting too heated, slow down and build the tension back up
Step three: make tension your friend
This is the part where you literally drive him wild. Basically, orgasms are a build-up of tension in the nether regions and by building that tension as much as you can, you can ensure that both you and your partner will have stronger, better orgasms.
So when you notice that he’s close to climax, stop what you’re doing and give him a chance to calm down before you start again. Yes, he’ll probably be begging you to keep going but he’ll thank you for it when he’s just experienced the best orgasm of his life.
